How I Lost The Man I Love...

Tired

Published on December 10, 2003 By Shobonna In Personal Relationships

I want to be with him, but I'm so tired of the battle.

I'm trying to get him to go out with other girls so he'll maybe see something (good or bad), but I don't know what's going to happen. Pretty sad when you're telling the man you are absolutely in love with to go out with other people so that he'll find what he wants....

I started thinking about it and the feeling I get when guys have been asking me out this past weekend/week is nothing compared to the feeling I get being with Matt. It's amazing that two people can view the same situation entirely different. I know it used to make him feel good when girls talked to him or he approached them, but why doesn't being with me feel better to him??

Comments

hippygrl

on Dec 10, 2003

Because either a) he's not ready for a committed relationship

you're not THE one for HIM

Shobonna

on Dec 10, 2003

I realize that both a and b are the logical answers from most people, but when when he tells you that "yes, you are the one I want" and "yes, I am ready for us" then it's hard. It's hard because I want it to and want to believe he does.

hippygrl

on Dec 10, 2003

Actions speak louder than words...cliche, but it fits......he wants his cake and eat it too.....cliche, but it fits....he'll keep stringing u along for as long as u let him I guess....you'll grow tired of it in your own time.

purple_orchid

on Dec 12, 2003

just cut him loose. take time out as in no contact at all (NO fone, email, sms wateva) for even just a week or two. as we are talking cliches here: "if you love something, set it free, if it doesnt come back, it wasnt yours in the first place." he can say he wants you till hes blue in the face, doesnt mean he REALLY means it...

otherwise you are just hurting the most important person....YOU

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